Thoughts from a Therapist

Helpful tips on How to Expand your Personal and Relational Wellness

  • Balanced Boundaries – a metaphor about giving and taking for the health of yourself and others

    I am a wooden vase filled with healing water gently replenished by the collective love… as I pour too little, I overflow and my wood becomes oversaturated and less aware of its own makeup and contents… bloated and blinded with excess… as I pour too much my wood becomes dry and cracked… delicate and injured.

  • Alcohol use and marital satisfaction

    Quick summary – I did some brief research (based on two scientific articles) on what the effect of alcohol use has on marital satisfaction. I am including my more thorough investigation below, but I will describe some of the finding here. One study accented the importance of commonality… this means that marital satisfaction was correlated…

  • What is empathy? How do I know if I am experiencing empathy?

    Quick summary – Empathy is when a person opens up their emotional boundaries and allows another person’s feeling to be cradled and nurtured within the loving hands of his/her understanding. Empathy is holding a narrative of another person and allowing yourself to feel the person’s emotions related to his or her storyline while understanding that…

  • Existentialism in Psychotherapy

    Existentialism is used in Psychotherapy to allow clients to explore their freedom in creating their own meaning. When a client finds his/her freedom to create meaning they greatly reduce their anxiety. The new meaning that a client creates can greatly reduce their suffering and can aid in a person’s recovery from a difficult lived experience.

  • pathologizing, labels, dichotomies, existentialism and acceptance

    Quick summary: I am offering a discussion concerning the drive to label and how labeling impacts suffering. There is a heated debate in the field of psychotherapy as to whether psychiatric (DSM) labels help or hurt the client’s recovery. I am commenting on what encourages our emotional reactions and behavior related to the topic.

  • Anger and Arguments – Are you defending the topic or your self?

    Quick summary: as part of increasing your self-awareness I suggest that you take a look at the topics that really get you ‘heated’ with the goal of coming to an understanding of how you personally identify with that topic. In this self-exploration you might just find that your emotion has very little to do with…

  • Existential Recovery – Emotional freedom inherent in the choice of meaning

    Quick summary: Most of us believe that the outside world is responsible for our emotions, that our emotional dispositions are externally controlled (ex. he/she or this event etc made me feel this way). I am going to suggest that the meaning that you place onto an occurrence in often what you are emotionally reacting to……

  • Empathy building exercise – learning to be empathetic – increasing emotional understanding

    Quick summary: In difficult times often we really want someone to ‘just be there for us’ and to ‘show compassion and understanding for what we are dealing with’ as opposed to offering pragmatic solutions or taking initiative to ‘fix it.’ In short people very often simply want empathy and they can feel worse, alone, or…

William Bishop, LPC, LMFT, AAMFT Approved Supervisor

“Greetings! I am an Online Psychotherapist, Coach, Supervisor, and Consultant based in Steamboat Springs, Colorado. In addition to running a private practice, I write a blog offering free insights on relationships, philosophy, wellness, spirituality, and the deeper questions of life. My goal is to provide meaningful support to anyone seeking clarity, growth, and connection.

If you’re interested in online therapy, coaching, supervision, or consultation, I invite you to visit SteamboatSpringsTherapy.com. There, you can learn more about my services and how we can work together. Whether you’re looking for practical guidance or deeper transformation, I look forward to connecting with you.”

Psychotherapy Blog

Thoughts from a Therapist: A Home for Depth-Oriented Psychology, Mindful Insight, and Practical Growth

At Thoughts from a Therapist, we explore the intersection of emotional intelligence, psychological theory, and human experience. This space serves as a resource for clinicians, seekers, and reflective minds drawn to insights that are both practical and profound.

Each post is grounded in lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and a dialectical approach to personal and collective growth. Below is an index of the therapeutic frameworks we regularly explore—each defined succinctly and linked to in-depth discussions.


At Thoughts from a Therapist, we delve into various psychotherapy theories, offering insights grounded in both professional practice and personal reflection. Below is an index of therapeutic frameworks we explore, each accompanied by a succinct definition and a link to a related blog post for deeper exploration:

Emotional and Social Intelligence

Explores the foundations of empathy, attunement, and interpersonal skillfulness as core components of psychological growth.
The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

Relational Therapy

Focuses on the therapeutic relationship as a vehicle for transformation, emphasizing mutuality, authenticity, and emotional presence.
Interventions in Relational Counseling

Attachment Theory

Explores how early relational experiences shape emotional bonds and self-regulation in adulthood.
When Attachment Theory and Existentialism Compete

Polyvagal Theory

Explores how the autonomic nervous system influences emotional regulation and social connection.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Identifies and harmonizes sub-personalities or “parts” within the individual to achieve internal balance.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Somatic Experiencing

Focuses on bodily sensations to process and heal trauma.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Addresses the interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to modify patterns that contribute to distress.
The Thoughts, Emotions, And Behaviors Triangle

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Combines acceptance and change strategies to enhance emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness.
Harmful Interaction Patterns – which do you do and what can help?

Narrative Therapy

Focuses on the stories we tell about ourselves and how reframing those narratives can foster agency and meaning.
Narrative Therapy Summary

Psychodynamic Therapy

Explores unconscious processes and past experiences to understand current behavior.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Existential Psychotherapy

Engages with core human concerns such as freedom, mortality, responsibility, and authenticity.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Centers on the importance of emotional bonds and attachment in relationships, aiming to create secure connections.
Attachment – Why We Say and Emote One Way When We Truly Feel and Think a Different Way

Compassion-Focused Therapy

Encourages self-kindness and addresses shame and self-criticism to promote mental well-being.
Compassionately Assertive – Maintaining Boundaries without Violating Others

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

Utilizes mindfulness meditation to reduce stress and enhance well-being.
The Evolution of CBT = Mindfulness

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Encourages accepting thoughts and feelings rather than fighting them, and committing to actions aligned with personal values.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy

Integrates body-centered interventions into psychotherapy to address trauma and attachment issues.
Attunement Exercise

Transpersonal Psychology

Examines the spiritual dimensions of human experience and the journey toward self-transcendence.
The Observer Self and the Analyst

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB)

Examines how relationships and the brain interact to shape our experiences.
Attunement Exercise

Humanistic Therapy

Emphasizes personal growth and self-actualization, focusing on the individual’s inherent potential.
Rogerian (or Person Centered) Therapy Summary

Solution-Focused Therapy

Concentrates on finding solutions in the present time and exploring hope for the future.
Solution Focused Therapy Simplified

Buddhist Psychology

Draws from contemplative traditions to integrate mindfulness, compassion, and non-attachment into therapeutic awareness.
The Evolution of CBT = Mindfulness

PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy)

Integrates attachment theory, neurobiology, and arousal regulation to help partners build secure-functioning relationships.
Attachment – Why We Say and Emote One Way When We Truly Feel and Think a Different Way

Gottman Approach

Focuses on enhancing intimacy, managing conflict, and strengthening friendship in relationships through research-backed methods.
Interventions in Relational Counseling

Parts Work

Engages with internal sub-personalities or emotional roles to foster self-leadership and integration.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Trauma-Informed Practice

Prioritizes emotional safety, autonomy, and trustworthiness in therapeutic engagement, particularly for survivors of trauma.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Executive Coaching

Blends psychological insight with leadership development, helping individuals align professional performance with personal integrity.
The Dialectic of Courage

Psychoeducation

Supports client understanding by translating psychological concepts into accessible tools for self-awareness and change.
The Thoughts, Emotions, And Behaviors Triangle

These models are presented as avenues for exploration—perspectives that expand our understanding of the human experience. Some discussions are theoretical, while others are more applied, collectively contributing to a deeper comprehension of personal growth and healing.