Thoughts from a Therapist

Psychology, Relationships, Meaning, and the Conditions that make Change

Category: Political topics

  • Can AI conduct therapy? | Will AI Replace Therapists?

    Can AI conduct therapy? | Will AI Replace Therapists?

    A conversation with AI about trauma-informed therapy gave me an answer to a question I had not been asking. AI may become very good at the conversation of therapy. Some growth requires another person — one who is free to misunderstand us, and free to leave.

  • When Politics Isn’t Really About Politics: Curiosity, Culture, and the Operating Systems We Share

    When Politics Isn’t Really About Politics: Curiosity, Culture, and the Operating Systems We Share

    Most political arguments inside families aren’t really about politics. They’re a way of asking whether our value systems still overlap. A look at culture as an operating system, and at the difference between defending an identity and protecting a value.

  • The Economy Is a Game We All Live Inside

    The Economy Is a Game We All Live Inside

    Basketball, Monopoly, and the Psychological Skill of Arguing the Other Side When we talk collectively about the economy, we rarely sound like a society working on a shared design problem. We sound like rival teams arguing over whose pain counts most. And the result is predictable. The conversation goes binary, turns emotional, and then stalls.…

  • Contextual Intelligence and Political Identity

    Contextual Intelligence and Political Identity

    We treat liberal and conservative as fixed identities. They are better understood as contextual strategies — orientations toward flexibility or toward structure that become coherent or incoherent depending on the system they are asked to organize.

  • Learning to See Clearly

    Learning to See Clearly

    A Workshop on Avoiding Misinformation and Psychological Manipulation We are living in an informational environment that places historically unfamiliar demands on the human nervous system. Messages arrive continuously — through headlines, images, conversations, institutions, personalities, and increasingly through algorithmic channels designed to hold our attention. Some of these messages are careful and well-intentioned. Some are…

  • Dialectic and Deconstruction Solutions: summary/outline

    Dialectic and Deconstruction Solutions: summary/outline

    DDS is a collaborative platform that organizes and makes visible existing solutions to major human problems. By utilizing deconstruction, dialectics, and solution design, it encourages accountability and fosters progress. With a digital ecosystem that includes a solution library and cultural engagement, DDS promotes democracy and emotional resonance in problem-solving, emphasizing collaborative healing and development.

  • Interviening with Extremism

    Interviening with Extremism

    This piece examines the emotional roots of extremist beliefs, highlighting trauma, shame, and the need for belonging as key drivers. It emphasizes that change comes from fostering compassion and humility rather than confrontation. While not everyone seeks to leave extremism, creating safe spaces for understanding can facilitate healing and reconnection.

  • Spiral Dynamics and Political Polarization: Why We Struggle to Govern Across Worldviews

    Spiral Dynamics and Political Polarization: Why We Struggle to Govern Across Worldviews

    How do we govern a nation when its citizens live in entirely different existential frameworks? This post explores Spiral Dynamics as a lens for understanding political polarization, authoritarian regression, and the psychological roots of our cultural divides. By mapping the values behind each stage of human development—from survival to global consciousness—we uncover why common ground…

  • Can Democracy Survive Without Truth?

    Can Democracy Survive Without Truth?

    Title: The Truth & Accountability Oath: A New Standard for Presidential Candidates Introduction: Can Democracy Survive Without Truth? The time to address this pressing issue is now. This post will engage in the Dialectic found between our desire to control misinformation and to protect free speech. There is tension, and we must be brave enough…

  • Democratically Denying Education – the internal flaw of democracy

    Democracy needs education to function properly; without an informed electorate it would be unclear as to what any given person’s vote was based on… this turns voting into a game of chance where we the people are choosing one person or policy based on either no information, false information, or fallacious information. Yet the freedoms…