Thoughts From a Therapist
Metaphors for wellness
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Most Disagreements Aren’t About the Facts
Two people can agree on every fact and still disagree about what to do. Not because one of them is wrong, but because they…
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Contextual Intelligence and Political Identity
We treat liberal and conservative as fixed identities. They are better understood as contextual strategies — orientations toward flexibility or toward structure that become…
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Treading Water / the Addiction to Doing
Some people believe that if they stop kicking, they will drown. They are exhausted, and they also trust the effort more than the water.…
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Fear of Abandonment vs. Integrity | Choosing Which Fear We Live With
The text explores the conflict between fear of abandonment, fear of death, and fear of self-betrayal during social situations, particularly in risky activities like…
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The Snake in the Room: A Mindful Approach to Understanding Anxiety
Not all anxiety is the same. This post explores three distinct forms of anxiety—trauma, adaptive fear, and cognitive worry—through the metaphor of a snake…
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The Depression Bubble
The Depression Bubble – a metaphor for understanding a loved-one’s depression – and compassion and suggestions for the healer… Depression can be like a…
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A metaphor for the relationship between control and suffering
I often share a metaphor with my clients who find themselves in a time of suffering stemming from environmental conditions that are mostly or…
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Parenting and Rowboats
There is more than one way to skin a cat they say… and there is more than one way to row a boat, but…
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Breathe before you help others to breathe
You settle into your seat on the airplane and right before takeoff you hear the familiar mantra: “In the event of pressure loss in…
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Hope in a space of Hopelessness
Quick summary: In this post I will offer a metaphor that sheds light on a common misperception of hope – being that hope is…
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Integrity and Your Social Potential
Perhaps it is at times better to measure your integrity on the degree to which you are asserting your potential to best positively influence…
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Synchronicity – The rattlesnake’s message of change and balance
Quick summary: This is a story about synchronicity and the collective unconscious… this message was given to me from the collective to help the…
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Balanced Boundaries – a metaphor about giving and taking for the health of yourself and others
I am a wooden vase filled with healing water gently replenished by the collective love… as I pour too little, I overflow and my…
