Thoughts from a Therapist

Psychology, Relationships, Meaning, and the Conditions that make Change

Thoughts From a Therapist

Self-Awareness, Self-Worth & Integrity

Self-worth, shame, identity, and integrity, and the gap between understanding a pattern and changing it.

  • Resilience, Humility, and the Temptation to Be Neurotic

    Resilience, Humility, and the Temptation to Be Neurotic

    Resilience involves embracing uncomfortable emotions like shame and guilt rather than avoiding them. True resilience is relational, allowing for emotional presence and accountability, particularly…

  • The Practice of Differentiation: Becoming the Observer of Ourselves

    The Practice of Differentiation: Becoming the Observer of Ourselves

    Differentiation is the ability to observe our inner life without being consumed by it. In this post, we explore how becoming the witness to…

  • Character Matters

    Character Matters

    The post discusses the erosion of core human values and character amidst political and cultural upheaval, emphasizing that the means and ends are inseparable.…

  • The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The blog explores emotional and social intelligence, emphasizing their role in enhancing mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness. It highlights essential capacities like empathy, self-awareness,…

  • The Dialectic of Courage

    The Dialectic of Courage

    Courage exists on a spectrum and requires balance, as both underdevelopment and overdevelopment can lead to issues. It is a crucial emotional capacity that…

  • Analysis vs Observation

    Analysis vs Observation

    This post contrasts sensation analysis with simple observation. Analysis categorizes and deducts, often distancing us from direct experience. In contrast, observation focuses on present…