Thoughts from a Therapist

Psychology, Relationships, Meaning, and the Conditions that make Change

Tag: empathy reduces defensiveness

  • Why are people Defensive? Reducing the anxiety of change

    Defensiveness is a behavior that people consciously and unconsciously engage in to avoid the anxiety which inevitably arrives with change. Change requires us to drop our perceptions of permanence… this means that when we change we are offered an experienced example of how our concept of self is ever transient… it can feel uncomfortable to…