Thoughts from a Therapist

Helpful tips on How to Expand your Personal and Relational Wellness

Tag: psychotherapy

  • The Fractal Field Model of Intelligence

    The Fractal Field Model of Intelligence

    The text redefines intelligence as a dynamic system integrating cognitive, emotional, and relational dimensions. It presents a Fractal Field Model emphasizing coherence as essential for both intelligence and mental health. Seven interdependent dimensions—Analytical, Creative, Practical, Emotional, Existential, Social, and Embodied intelligences—are outlined, illustrating their interconnectedness in fostering wholeness and participation in life.

  • The Fractal Field of Mental Health

    The Fractal Field of Mental Health

    The text outlines a fluid and dynamic model of mental health, emphasizing that it encompasses multiple interdependent dimensions: Individual, Relational, Embodied, Integrity, Dialectical, Engaged, and Interconnectedness. These dimensions work together to foster growth, balance, and coherence, highlighting the importance of relationships, emotional awareness, and ethical alignment in achieving mental wellness and a sense of belonging.

  • Strength Is Contextual

    Strength Is Contextual

    Strength is not a singular trait but a contextual movement toward personal balance. It emerges differently for hyper-empowered individuals, who may need restraint, and hypo-empowered ones, who may need assertion. True resilience demands disrupting entrenched patterns, fostering authentic growth instead of adhering to culturally ingrained distortions like toxic masculinity or chronic caretaking.

  • Curiosity Without Judgment: Understanding the Adaptive Logic of Our Behavior

    Curiosity Without Judgment: Understanding the Adaptive Logic of Our Behavior

    The article explores the importance of distinguishing between judgmental and curious forms of questioning when reflecting on our behaviors. It emphasizes that understanding the underlying intentions behind our actions, often shaped by past adaptations, allows for personal growth. By fostering curiosity without judgment, we can integrate our past experiences into a healthier present.

  • The Practice of Differentiation: Becoming the Observer of Ourselves

    The Practice of Differentiation: Becoming the Observer of Ourselves

    Differentiation is the ability to observe our inner life without being consumed by it. In this post, we explore how becoming the witness to our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors can create the spaciousness needed for real choice.

  • The Snake in the Room: A Mindful Approach to Understanding Anxiety

    The Snake in the Room: A Mindful Approach to Understanding Anxiety

    Not all anxiety is the same. This post explores three distinct forms of anxiety—trauma, adaptive fear, and cognitive worry—through the metaphor of a snake in the room. Learn how to discern what kind of support each form needs.

  • The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The blog explores emotional and social intelligence, emphasizing their role in enhancing mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness. It highlights essential capacities like empathy, self-awareness, and compassion, which contribute to navigating life’s complexities. These skills are not fixed but can be developed, fostering connection, clarity, and presence in everyday experiences and psychotherapy.

  • Interventions in Relational Counseling

    Interventions in Relational Counseling

    Relational therapy utilizes various acronym-based models to guide therapists. It emphasizes the importance of integrating different theoretical approaches for effective interventions, highlighting key intervention styles, including behavioral, pragmatic, structural, and more. These styles collectively support system needs and adaptability, allowing therapists to fluidly adapt techniques based on clients’ evolving dynamics.

  • Gestalt Psychotherapy – an overview

    For this post I will give an overview of Gestalt psychotherapy, which is popular for both its’ experiential nature and its large amount of techniques.