Thoughts from a Therapist

Helpful tips on How to Expand your Personal and Relational Wellness

Tag: empathy

  • Emotional and Social Intelligence as a Living Balance | A Map for When You Want to Grow

    Emotional and Social Intelligence as a Living Balance | A Map for When You Want to Grow

    This content discusses the importance of emotional and social intelligence for personal growth, emphasizing the need for balance in various capacities such as self-awareness, mindfulness, and empathy. It highlights how understanding these dynamics can facilitate psychological development, adaptability to life’s changes, and foster meaningful connections while avoiding extremes.

  • When Compassion Silences Self-Worth

    When Compassion Silences Self-Worth

    The content emphasizes the importance of balancing compassion for others with self-advocacy. Uncontrolled compassion can lead to self-abandonment and resentment, undermining true empathy. Healthy empathy incorporates self-care, allowing individuals to express their worth without guilt. Ultimately, mutual respect and fairness foster deeper, more reciprocal relationships.

  • The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

    The blog explores emotional and social intelligence, emphasizing their role in enhancing mental, emotional, and spiritual wellness. It highlights essential capacities like empathy, self-awareness, and compassion, which contribute to navigating life’s complexities. These skills are not fixed but can be developed, fostering connection, clarity, and presence in everyday experiences and psychotherapy.

  • The difference between good intentions and good actions = understanding, humility, and empathy

    There are many saying about how many “evil actions” have been the result of good intentions. So how are we to know if our actions are good? Are there actions which are indisputably wrong and indisputably right? Instead of going into a heady philosophical investigation as to why good and bad are infinitely one, inseparable,…

  • What is empathy? How do I know if I am experiencing empathy?

    Quick summary – Empathy is when a person opens up their emotional boundaries and allows another person’s feeling to be cradled and nurtured within the loving hands of his/her understanding. Empathy is holding a narrative of another person and allowing yourself to feel the person’s emotions related to his or her storyline while understanding that…

  • Empathy building exercise – learning to be empathetic – increasing emotional understanding

    Quick summary: In difficult times often we really want someone to ‘just be there for us’ and to ‘show compassion and understanding for what we are dealing with’ as opposed to offering pragmatic solutions or taking initiative to ‘fix it.’ In short people very often simply want empathy and they can feel worse, alone, or…

  • Empathy – nature and nurture

    Quick summary: Empathy comes from nature and from nurture… from perceived positive and negative experiences. Empathy is something which is advantageous to the social human animal… there are many ways of augmenting this ability.